We all have a friend who never wants to hang out, but only calls when he wants something? Annoying, right? Well, it’s the same idea when it comes to giving a woman flowers. Don't just give her a bouquet when you want something or when times get tough. Early on, you need to set a precedent, by giving her flowers when things are good. This creates an association: “Flowers = Happy Times.
" Just Because "
This is the most important part. You must — absolutely must — give her flowers at random occasions “just because,” two to four times a year. To make it really seem random, try to time it at least a week or two after any major events or big arguments. This keeps her on her toes, makes you seem slightly dangerous and unpredictable, and helps maintain the illusion that you both live in a Romantic Happy-Times Fantasy Bubble.
" The Next Morning "
You guys shared an amazing new experience last night. Trust. Love. Communication. Send her some flowers with a little note that says “thank you for opening my eyes last night.” Remember, you’re giving flowers to recall the what? That’s right, the Happy Times.
Also, giving her roses is like writing her a poem that starts out “Roses are red, violets are blue…” Sweet, but obvious. Try something new.